A few starting points.
There's no single right place to start. Pick whichever of these meets you where you are right now. You can always come back for the others.
Stay standing
Recognizing burnout, finding a therapist, and what to do with the guilt.
Know your rights
Protected leave, getting paid, accessing records, what the law actually allows.
Find the money
Medicaid, paid leave, VA programs, respite funding, where to start looking.
Walk into appointments ready
What to bring, what to ask, and how to coordinate doctors who don’t talk.